Love is positive!

 Now! Let us assume that a teenager is having a rough day, tough homework, rigorous parents, and the main point low followers on social media. That sounds “Lame” right?

 Imagine a Breadwinner, who works hard from 9 to 5, has a good salary, maintains a good tempo with everyone, and has loving parents.

 Cool, let’s talk about the Retirees. They have done everything they wanted to achieve. They worked hard, they slew in their roles and many more. 

 Coming to the point, everyone has their own achievement to work with! Also, they are in the above stages or yet to complete them. But have they ever fallen in LOVE? Have they ever felt for real? For that one special person? Listen, I am here talking about that Partner Wala Love (Okay in your language ‘Ishq Wala Love’), not family, friends, and that stuff.

 People say we have done this, done that, we are committed to a person and together we have achieved everything etc... But My Darlings! Have you really committed to your “Love”? If YES! Cheers to you! If NO! Then this article is absolutely for you.

 “I achieved everything; I wish I would have someone in my life!” Like seriously? To all the Nos, don’t tell me that you haven’t felt anything like this. Sometimes, taking a break is okay until and unless you have an emergency. It’s okay to travel alone, it’s okay to get to know you well. That’s when you understand other people well.

 All you need to keep in mind is “Love is Positive” always and forever. Don’t let Love turn into it’s negative. When it does, you will lead the worst phase of life. So, my inaugural point is “Believe in Love”. Once you start believing it, I can assure you that you will be leading your life. You fear feeling of expressing only from your side and the other one doesn’t co-operate with you. Trust me, it’s the most beautiful feeling in the world as SRK said in ADHM. A girl may ignore you or maybe A boy doesn’t even know you exist. But, if your feelings are constant, there is nothing that can stop you from! “Everything in this world has its own recompense and penalty”. So, don’t worry and this is not a motivation, just keep going, and wait for the beautiful result.

 It's not even taking time for it, but remember that “Love is not something, you will do in your free time, it’s something else which makes your stressful time a stress booster”. So, never hesitate to love. First, love yourself and then let others Love you. Finally, Love others with a whole heart. Trust me, you will always win.

 Let me tell you my own L-L-L rule which may give you a positive vibe regarding Love.

 1. Experience “Limerence”: This is the state of being infatuated with somebody and being obsessed with them. It’s okay to consume Limerence because sometimes it motivates us to achieve some work on time Lol! This is why you come to the college or office daily just to get a glimpse of your crush or partner. 

 2. La douleur exquise: This is a French term, that describes a feeling of pain exclusively when you want someone you can’t have. It’s okay to feel the pain. Because that is when you get to know who is right and who is wrong. That is when you get to know about your choices, standards, and bare minimum things.

 3. Beyond Lust and Love called “Levity”: Maybe you are good at flirting or maybe you are good at admiring your loved ones. But rather than that, you need to add this term called Levity which means associating with humor or playfulness. Love shouldn’t be about slaying and Lust. It’s something about enlightening a flavor of Levity to your relationship. That is when a person feels kind-hearted and accepts your jest.

 So, my dear lovely Darlings, I hope this Little article helps you to believe in Love. I hope you find someone who lightens your life and makes you a complete person. Thank you <3.